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Welcome to the NeuroSomatic Inverted Processing™

Helping people get rid of trauma, anxiety and unwanted negative emotions using the power of Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™.

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About Me

Hey there. My name is Sam Ayeni, a combat veteran, speaker, and clinical mental health coach known as the “Drill Sergeant of Transformation.”
My journey has taken me from a rural African village to the U.S. Army infantry in Afghanistan, to ministry, business, and now the work of trauma-informed transformation.

Beyond my academic training, my work is shaped by my lived experience. I’ve lived through childhood sexual trauma, combat trauma, everything in between and years of rebuilding emotional safety from the inside out. I know what it means to fight for freedom in your own nervous system. That’s why I combine clinical skill, neuroscience, and compassionate understanding in everything I do.

I created The Equation of Life™ and Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™ to help people reset identity, heal at the root, and transform their emotional and relational lives with evidence-based tools that actually work.

I’ve served as a corporate IT auditor, founded a financial services firm, co-authored a book with Brian Tracy, and earned a master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Colorado Christian University.

Today, I coach individuals and organizations, speak on emotional transformation and high performance, and help people become who they were designed to be, from the inside and out. I live in the Greater Colorado Springs area with my wife and children.

You’re Not Alone If You Feel…

Emotional & Mental

  • You feel disconnected from yourself, even when life looks “normal” on the outside.
  • You keep repeating the same emotional patterns and don’t know why.
  • You struggle with anxiety, heaviness, or emotional overwhelm.
  • You often second-guess your decisions and doubt your inner voice.
  • You carry old wounds that still affect your relationships today.

Life & Purpose

  • You feel stuck — like life is moving but you’re not.
  • You sense there’s a deeper purpose within you, but you can’t access it.
  • You wake up tired, unmotivated, or disconnected from your passions.
  • You want clarity, but everything feels foggy and confusing.

Spiritual

  • You know you’re meant for more spiritually but don’t know where to begin.
  • You want a deeper connection with your intuition but feel blocked.
  • You’ve tried self-help videos, books, or meditation, but nothing “clicks.”
  • You feel emotionally numb or spiritually distracted.

Relationship

  • You attract the same types of relationships — and the same pain.
  • You struggle with boundaries and end up drained by others.
  • You feel unseen, unheard, or misunderstood.

6-Week Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™ Breakthrough Program

  • 6 x 90-Minute Weekly Coaching Sessions
    Deep, structured sessions designed to release trauma, anxiety, and emotional blocks.
  • 5 Days a Week WhatsApp/Text Support (Mon–Fri)
    Get guidance and support whenever you need it, with a 24-hour response time.
  • Full Accountability
    Stay on track with continuous follow-up, personalized direction, and progress monitoring.
  • Transformational Results
    A complete emotional reset to help you reclaim clarity, confidence, and inner peace.
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Our 5-Step Process for Trauma Healing

9 Emotional Needs

Every human has nine core emotional needs — to feel seen, heard, understood, validated, significant, accepted, loved, authentic, and to belong. When these needs are not met in early life, emotional gaps form and create inner conflict.

Negative Meaning Is Created

Unmet needs lead the mind to form negative beliefs such as I’m not enough, I don’t deserve love, or the world is unsafe. These meanings become subconscious programs that influence thoughts and behaviors.

Negative Emotion Is Created

Negative meanings generate strong emotional responses like anger, fear, sadness, hurt, guilt, and shame. These emotions are triggered whenever current events resemble past painful experiences.

Trauma Response Pattern Is Produced

Persistent negative emotions create coping patterns such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, defensiveness, dissociation, anger outbursts, hyper-independence, and chronic self-doubt. These patterns develop for protection but later limit growth.

5 Major Human Needs

Safety, variety, significance, love and connection, and contribution are the five needs that shape human behavior. When trauma disrupts these needs, a person struggles to feel secure, valued, connected, and emotionally balanced.

What Clients Are Saying

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I struggled with anxiety and emotional overwhelm for years. After going through the sessions, I finally feel calm, grounded, and in control of my life again.

Sarah MA life-changing experience!
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The process helped me understand my emotions on a deeper level. I feel lighter, clearer, and more confident than ever before.

Daniel RI released trauma I didn’t know I was carrying.
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I stopped reacting from old patterns and started showing up with emotional clarity. This program gave me a new version of myself.

Emily K.My relationships transformed completely.
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The Neurosomatic method helped me break cycles I thought were permanent. I finally feel free, peaceful, and emotionally aligned.

Alex TMore progress in weeks than years of therapy.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What is Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™?

Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™ is a neuroscience-based, trauma-informed method that reverses the traditional top-down approach to healing and performance. Instead of starting with thoughts, mindset, or willpower, it begins with the nervous system, body, and subconscious emotional patterns, the places where trauma is actually stored. When the body calms, the brain becomes available for change.

How is this different from traditional therapy or coaching?

Most approaches try to change your life by focusing on:

  • mindset
  • positive thinking
  • cognitive reframing
  • discipline
  • motivation

Those methods start at the top (thoughts) and hope the body follows. Neurosomatic Inverted Processing™ starts at the bottom by regulating the nervous system, unwinding stored trauma responses, and shifting somatic patterns. Then we address mindset and identity once your physiology is aligned and receptive. This makes transformation faster, more permanent, and less exhausting.

Do you have any qualifications?

I hold a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, along with multiple neuroscience-based coaching certifications. But beyond the academic training, my work is deeply shaped by my lived experience.

I’ve walked through trauma myself, from childhood sexual trauma to combat trauma as an infantryman in Afghanistan, and everything in between. I know, firsthand, what it feels like to be bound by trauma, to fight for emotional freedom, and to rebuild a sense of safety from the inside out.

I bring both my professional qualifications and my personal journey to the work I do, combining clinical skill, neuroscience, and compassionate understanding. My passion is helping clients heal, reclaim their identity, and experience true emotional and relational transformation.

Why can’t I “think” my way out of trauma patterns?

Because trauma isn’t stored in your thinking brain.
It lives in:

  • the nervous system
  • the vagus nerve
  • the limbic system
  • muscle memory
  • breath patterns
  • relational reflexes
  • emotional stored charge

You can’t out-think a survival reflex.

You have to retrain the body first.

What problems does this method help with?

High achievers typically seek this work when dealing with:

  • chronic stress or burnout
  • anxiety or overthinking
  • relationship triggers
  • identity confusion or self-doubt
  • feeling “never enough”
  • emotional shut-down or numbness
  • people-pleasing or over-perfectionism
  • hyper-independence
  • inability to rest
  • repeating trauma patterns

If you feel like your brain and body are fighting each other, this method solves that.

Is this a therapy method or a coaching method?

It is a coaching method rooted in neuroscience and somatic psychology.

It is not a replacement for therapy, but it is extremely effective when:

  • traditional therapy hasn’t resolved the deeper body patterns
  • mindset work isn’t sticking
  • your emotional triggers feel automatic or overwhelming
  • you want a high-performance outcome, not diagnosis-based support

What happens in a session?

A typical session includes:

  • nervous system mapping
  • somatic awareness exercises
  • bottom-up emotional processing
  • trauma pattern repatterning
  • identity reorientation
  • practical performance strategies

Each session is experiential, guided, and grounded in regulated pacing.

Is this safe?

Yes. The method prioritizes:

  • nervous system safety
  • gentle processing
  • gradual unwinding
  • zero overwhelm
  • controlled, supported experiences

You remain aware, present, and in control the entire time.

Do we talk about childhood trauma?

Yes, but in a controlled and non-retraumatizing way.

We don’t relive the trauma. We process the imprint the trauma left on your body, emotions,
and identity. We heal the pattern, not the story.

How fast do results occur?

Most high achievers experience measurable shifts in:

  • emotional regulation
  • stress reduction
  • trigger reduction
  • clarity
  • internal sense of safety
  • confidence and identity stability within the first 2–3 weeks.

By week 6, clients typically feel:

  • significantly calmer
  • more grounded
  • more in control
  • more emotionally resilient
  • more connected to themselves
  • less reactive
  • more aligned in their relationships
  • clearer in identity and purpose

Why is this especially effective for high achievers?

High performers often live from the neck up: logic, strategy, discipline. Their bodies carry unresolved stress and emotional backlog that no one sees.

This method:

  • bypasses the need for emotional language
  • helps regulate quickly
  • reduces reactivity
  • increases cognitive functioning
  • improves decision-making
  • restores internal balance
  • sharpens performance
  • stabilizes identity

It’s efficient, science-driven, and results-oriented.

What if I’m already successful, why do I still feel stuck?

Because success does not cancel the body’s memory.

High achievers often excel in spite of their trauma patterns, not because they resolved them. Eventually the body demands resolution:

  • burnout
  • exhaustion
  • stress
  • relationship issues
  • emotional numbness
  • anxiety
  • self-doubt

This work addresses what your achievements could never heal.

Do I have to share personal details?

Only as much as you choose. The body reveals patterns without requiring full story disclosure. Many clients appreciate the privacy and efficiency of this approach.

Does this involve anything spiritual?

No.

The method is strictly grounded in:

  • neuroscience
  • trauma physiology
  • somatic psychology
  • neuroplasticity
  • emotional regulation science

No spiritual or metaphysical elements are required.

Who is this NOT for?

This method is not ideal for:

  • individuals seeking diagnosis
  • people needing crisis-level mental health intervention
  • those unwilling to reflect or participate somatically
  • those expecting quick fixes without engagement

This work requires presence, honesty, and collaboration.

What does “inverted” mean?

Traditional healing:

Mind → Body
(Top-down)
This method:

Body → Emotional Patterns → Identity → Mind
(Bottom-up)

We reverse the direction to match how the brain actually changes.

What results do clients typically report?

Common outcomes include:

  • feeling grounded instead of triggered
  • improved emotional intelligence
  • more clarity and direction
  • a calmer, more regulated baseline
  • better relationships
  • reduced anxiety
  • increased confidence
  • more internal space and freedom
  • less overthinking
  • restored sense of self

And most importantly, a body that no longer feels like it’s fighting you.

I’m skeptical. How do I know this will work?

You should be skeptical. I would be too.

You don’t know me yet, and you may have tried things that didn’t work. That’s a valid reason to question anything new.

Here’s something you should consider:

If you feel comfortable walking away, do that. And please, do not judge yourself for
walking away from this.

If something in you feels like avoiding this would keep you stuck, then take the chance.

This isn’t about trusting me; it’s about deciding whether you’re willing to try one more path that might finally help you feel different.

Straightforward, no pressure. The choice is yours.